My partner and I have separate finances but there are a lot of household expenses that we "owe" each other for, outside of our shared accounts. For example, if I pay $100 for groceries, he would owe me $50. We have been using Splitwise to track those transactions and then bi-weekly or monthly we'll settle up the amount owed to each other. I would love to keep all of our budget work here on Lunch Money so there are two pieces here:

1 - My monthly tally is going to show I spent X on groceries, however most of that is probably split with my partner so I'd like my monthly tally to show the total spent but also maybe a toggle to display the totals minus the split amounts.

2 - Link to my partner's budget. If he enters a $200 transaction that is split in half with me, and I enter a $100 transaction that is split with him, the shared space would show I owe him $50. This would allow us to settle up the amounts as needed.